Romance novels aren't all lusting, thrusting loins and damsels in distress. Don't look at me like that - they aren't all bad. Sure, the covers can be pretty pornographic, but the content can provide for a very entertaining read. I've got five undeniably good reasons to put down that Milton and pick up a bodice ripping paperback.

Romance novels don't always have to be trashy. They aren't the great literature of tomorrow that we'll put in a time capsule and send into space. But romance novels go beyond the titillation and erotic appeal. Once you navigate away from the formulaic novels and delve deeper into the genre, there are some truly amazing novels, characters, and plot lines.

Here are five great reasons to head on down to the bookstore and pick up a romance novel.

5. The writing is actually not that bad.

Once you start to veer away from the more formulaic novels, the writing is actually quite impressive. You have to admit, writing a well crafted sex scene takes an immense literary gift - either that or a thesaurus of euphemisms. The main characters of the novel are often times very well developed with vivid personalities and back stories. Other fiction writers can take some tips from romance writers in the character development department.

4. Two words: paranormal romance.

I definitely fall into this category of readers. For awhile, I was in denial and tried to convince myself that I was really reading fantasy novels, not "paranormal romance". But it can't be denied any longer. This is one of the hottest genres in romance at the moment. It's been around for awhile, but it's getting bigger and bigger. You can't ignore it - it's everywhere. From the sex scenes in True Blood, all the way back to Dracula, paranormal romance is unavoidable.

The influence of epic fantasy writers on the romance genre has been mixed: not only do you get series that span seven or more books, but you get involved plots, and decent writing. Paranormal romance, while still somewhat formulaic, allows for interesting plots, complex characters, and limitless opportunities. Not to mention it improved the cover art, at least a little.

3. The ability to explore sexual fantasies in a safe atmosphere.

You can roll your eyes at me all you want! As a solitary activity, reading gives you the opportunity to actively take part in a sexual fantasy without the fear of being stuck in an uncomfortable situation. As a reader, you can engage actively by connecting with the characters, or passively by simply enjoying the text. The ability to select an active or passive role in your own sexual exploration is very important, and empowering. Unlike pornography, which can sometimes feel overproduced and artificial, reading allows the imagination to wander, and you can experience sexual acts exactly how you desire.

It may seem like something small and pathetic, but for some women, romance novels are a way for them to express their sexual agency and learn about their own desires and fantasies.

2. There's a little something for everybody.

Not into hetero couplings? We've got that for you. Have an inking for gay, engaged British men? Try Discreet Young Gentleman. Prefer a borderline politically incorrect "rape or not rape?" scenario? Trust me, there's tons of that. You can pick any historical period, geographical location, sexuality, theme, you name it. Romance novels have it all.

1. Sometimes you just need to let go.

Despite their trashy and salacious content, romance novels can be enjoyable reads. You can relax, let go, and allow the overly formulaic plot to take over you. Reading doesn't have to be an arduous activity: enjoy it. Pour yourself a little adult lemonade and lounge out in the sun by the pool. I promise I won't judge you if you put a paper bag over the cover.

Honorable mention: the cover art. It's just too hilarious to not be amazing. Don't believe me? I think the image above is proof enough. Not to mention they're usually very affordable, written by and for women, and are often published by women as well.

Have you ever found yourself reading the back of a romance novel and wanting to read it? Don't worry, you're not alone.